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GOSSIPING WHAT A HORRIBLE WORD 1 year 3 months ago #2808209

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I come in chat rooms, because i am a woman alone, and love to talk, laugh and just have a good time in chats

But some people seem to want to hurt others, just because , such and such a person said something

Why not forget what other people say, and even if its true, we are all over 50 and vaccinated and why bother what other people do, i will never understand

Life is hard enough as it is, so why make it harder on yourself and others

And i know that i was not put on this hearth to judge anyone

I hope everyone will have a beautiful day ! xx
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GOSSIPING WHAT A HORRIBLE WORD 1 year 3 months ago #2808224

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I just enjoy a laugh, so I stick mainly to the lighthearted section of the forum and have never knocked on the door to the chat rooms. :)
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GOSSIPING WHAT A HORRIBLE WORD 1 year 3 months ago #2808246

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I'm not really interested in the Chat rooms . Maybe if I was younger, and a quicker typist I would be .
But I am surprised if members, would gossip on there.?

I have no time for gossip, and none of my wide circle of real life friends, would do either.

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GOSSIPING WHAT A HORRIBLE WORD 1 year 3 months ago #2808259

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I have to say I have not really come across gossip on this site.
Everyone just seems a friendly bunch. :xxx: :xxx:
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GOSSIPING WHAT A HORRIBLE WORD 1 year 3 months ago #2808262

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lindamay wrote: I come in chat rooms, because i am a woman alone, and love to talk, laugh and just have a good time in chats

But some people seem to want to hurt others, just because , such and such a person said something

Why not forget what other people say, and even if its true, we are all over 50 and vaccinated and why bother what other people do, i will never understand

Life is hard enough as it is, so why make it harder on yourself and others

And i know that i was not put on this hearth to judge anyone

I hope everyone will have a beautiful day ! xx

I suppose the answer is in your own hands , keep out of the chat rooms , if it is that mean.. I never venture there myself TBh
:) :)

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GOSSIPING WHAT A HORRIBLE WORD 1 year 3 months ago #2808268

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Topsy wrote: I have to say I have not really come across gossip on this site.


Really?.... :laugh: :laugh: .. :P ...... :xxx:

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GOSSIPING WHAT A HORRIBLE WORD 1 year 3 months ago #2808270

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flowersun wrote:

Topsy wrote: I have to say I have not really come across gossip on this site.


Really?.... :laugh: :laugh: .. :P ...... :xxx:

(;;) (;;)
Care to join me girlie .

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GOSSIPING WHAT A HORRIBLE WORD 1 year 3 months ago #2808278

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I have never come across actual gossip on this site, but I have noticed unpleasantness (towards others not myself). Making fun of someone's opinions is hurtful and there is no need for it. Usually the admins jump in and put a stop to it.
You can only chat properly in the chat rooms if there is just a small number of people, otherwise everything moves too fast and you can't keep up.
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GOSSIPING WHAT A HORRIBLE WORD 1 year 3 months ago #2808449

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Never tried the chat room after my initial go at it where I was ignored. I've never seen any gossip on the threads, a few digs here and there but no gossip.
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GOSSIPING WHAT A HORRIBLE WORD 1 year 3 months ago #2808782

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LIndaMay, I couldn't agree with you more, we're all adults on this site. By the time the gossip goes through the internet grapevine it's magnified. You have to have a thick-skin when you join any social site and should keep in mind that we never know what type of person we are chatting with or what has gone on or is presently happening in their lives that would be hurtful. Some are bent on gossip and it's passed off as the human condition. I don't believe that. I believe those that engage in gossip or bullying online are petty, immature and are lacking something in their own lives or possibly diverting he attention to themselves. :(

Also, with the lack of voice people misinterpret and come to their own conclusions and awful lot. There are too many different personalities to contend with from different cultures to contend with but I do believe what we have in common is knowing what is right or wrong with respect to others in a public chat room.
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