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Why do men leave women? 1 week 2 days ago #3341495

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especially when they are good women?
what happens
To me, those early days are distorted and it needs some time before the "distortion" wears off for the woman to see clearly the good things of the man and never trust a man more than he respects you and give yourself permission to get hurt accept the risk is my opinion.
Having said that love is a risk, period
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Why do men leave women? 1 week 2 days ago #3341505

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Frankie,
It can go both ways,why do women leave men,if they are both unhappy in the relationship,rather than prolong the pain any longer,they separate,giving each other a chance to go their own separate ways.
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Why do men leave women? 1 week 2 days ago #3341666

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Frankie wrote: especially when they are good women?
what happens
To me, those early days are distorted and it needs some time before the "distortion" wears off for the woman to see clearly the good things of the man and never trust a man more than he respects you and give yourself permission to get hurt accept the risk is my opinion.
Having said that love is a risk, period




Well to quote a psychologist in Asia talking about the very many expats leaving their wives in their fifties for Asian girls half their age , many of them looking to marry out of poverty at all price, the reason given was that these men and their otherwise happy families would never have divorced their wives if they had stayed in the UK but all of a sudden when kids are raised and so many twenty soemthing girls are chasing after them ( or wallet and passport) they feel both charmed and young again and flattered, leave wives and marry again and start all over again with babies in their early 60ies and all, I know a few of them who deeply regretted and learned to appreciate the value of what they had...

Tough for them...
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Why do men leave women? 1 week 1 day ago #3341699

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erm….cos !!

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Why do men leave women? 1 week 1 day ago #3341704

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Don’t know,,met mine when I was 18 stayed together until he died last year,,my 3 sisters and 1 brother all stayed with their partners until death.
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Why do men leave women? 1 week 1 day ago #3341860

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When mates leave each other there are a lot of reasons. When mates see their friends having
more fun than they are, they think the grass is always greener with their life style. After men
and women divorce a few times ,they know this not to be true. Please tell me I am wrong by
posting another good reason based on real facts.
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Why do men leave women? 1 week 1 day ago #3341865

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Pascalou - yes, mid life crisis.

Frankie, relationships don't work out for lots of reasons and one partner leaves, might be the man or the woman.
Someone can be a good woman or man but the relationship doesn't work.
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Why do men leave women? 1 week 1 day ago #3341882

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For the same reasons women leave men for the most part.
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Why do men leave women? 1 week 1 day ago #3341894

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I think that it is almost impossible to know what goes on in someone else's marriage.
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Why do men leave women? 1 week 1 day ago #3342143

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People marry for different reasons but usually they marry with expectations. If those expectations are not forthcoming, they leave and look for them elsewhere.
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