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Separate Beds Or Even A Separate Bedroom? Are They Good For A Relationship? 3 years 7 months ago #2193866

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Is that loud snoring, fidgeting and twitching from your spouse, disturbing your sleep? Moving into the spare bedroom permanently could solve your problem....couldn't it? or don't you want to upset your spouse?
If they don't snore but fidget and twitch would you consider separate beds?
Are you already sleeping separately but still very happy?
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Separate Beds Or Even A Separate Bedroom? Are They Good For A Relationship? 3 years 7 months ago #2193872

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My sister has had separate beds for yrs , hes a light sleeper but they are in the same room ... i think they are well past 50 shades :laugh:

I need a bed warmer :laugh:
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Separate Beds Or Even A Separate Bedroom? Are They Good For A Relationship? 3 years 7 months ago #2193873

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I need someone to keep my feet warm

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Separate Beds Or Even A Separate Bedroom? Are They Good For A Relationship? 3 years 7 months ago #2193875

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It's me that is the fidget,when my feet get hot i have to find a cooler part of the bed....then i pull all the covers up to get my feet out ..poor man couldn't get a good nights sleep ...so a few years ago i moved into the spare room to let him sleep...he never really complained,but i felt it wasn't being fair to him.Now i can roam around the bed and not feel guilty....and he is just next door. ;)
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Separate Beds Or Even A Separate Bedroom? Are They Good For A Relationship? 3 years 7 months ago #2193887

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I fidget terrible, must have me feet out of the bed, so throw the covers over him which he hates so throws em back ! then ONE of us snores......apparently loudly, but the funny thing is - the one that's being accused ;) never hears a thing soooo have come to the conclusion that 'he' who hears it must be doing it ! thus waking 'himself' up !
i'm a gentile soul I could NEVER make such a sound HOW VERY DARE HE ! :woohoo: :evil:
(he's been pottering in the spar bedroom - wonder who he's getting it ready for......)

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Separate Beds Or Even A Separate Bedroom? Are They Good For A Relationship? 3 years 7 months ago #2193893

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No I like sleeping in same bed.

I miss him when he is not there - if he snores too much I just shove him over onto his side and he usually stops. :P
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Separate Beds Or Even A Separate Bedroom? Are They Good For A Relationship? 3 years 7 months ago #2193906

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If a couple cant come to an agreement on their sleeping habits then that is the problem that needs to be sorted, if they cant agree then they can enjoy each others misery or take some serious action to put an end to it.

You need to be able to sleep in the way that you want to sleep whether it be separate
beds or separate rooms or whatever. It should have no affect on your personal life or your habits.

Sleep is when you close the door on everything, when you wake up in the morning then you once again join in with everything................."Morning, Luv, hope this eggs done o.k. for you, giz a kiss".......etc etc etc.....

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Separate Beds Or Even A Separate Bedroom? Are They Good For A Relationship? 3 years 7 months ago #2193908

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Mine twitches, fidgets and snores...but I still love to snuggle up to him. :)
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Separate Beds Or Even A Separate Bedroom? Are They Good For A Relationship? 3 years 7 months ago #2193911

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My mum when i was living at home , was an awful snorer even with the bedroom door shut you could still hear her downstairs ... most embarrasing when you bought a girl friend home :laugh:
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Separate Beds Or Even A Separate Bedroom? Are They Good For A Relationship? 3 years 7 months ago #2193913

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Well I suppose if needs must, lack of sleep etc........but I cannot help but think that you would begin to lose the closeness and intimacy that is there when you share a bed......... the spontaneity of lovemaking has been taken away if you have to decide shall we or shall we not before you disappear into your separate bedrooms.......and what about after, no snuggling up and laying in each others arms..........so it's creep off back to your lonely bed......Nooooooo.......maybe I am just a romantic, buy hey, no apologies for being so......xx
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